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Frequently Asked Questions

Do you offer unprotected intercourse?

I take my health seriously and will never offer unprotected intercourse. Additionally, I do not offer deep throating, cum in mouth or cum on face.

Do you provide PSE or rough/hard sex services?

I am a passionate woman however, I do not enjoy pornographic style connections. 

 

Do your offer BBBJ?

Yes, I offer BBBJ starting at $300 extra for the first hour. For bookings longer than 1 hour, please get in touch for bespoke rates. BBBJ is always offered at my discretion. 

 

Do you offer anal sex?
Yes, I offer anal sex starting at $500 to the first hour, for bookings 3 hours or longer. Please get in touch for bespoke rates. Anal sex is always offered at my discretion and is dependent on how safe I feel with you. It's highly unlikely I will feel comfortable exploring this with first time clients. 

 

Do you offer sexting?

Yes, I offer steamy sexting! Please check my Digital Connection page for more information. 


Are your breasts natural or enhanced?
Natural! I've been blessed by mumma nature with a large, natural G cup bust

Do you see couples? 
Absolutely! I love spending time with couples. Please add an additional $250 for the first hour. For dates longer than 1 hour, please get in touch for bespoke rates.

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Are you ok with filming and/or photography during the session?

No, I do not offer any filming or photography. 

Can you shave/wax your body hair for me?
I do not accept grooming requests - my body hair will be how I want it to be which is usually shaved legs with grown out armpit hair and a full bush. Note that being a woman of mixed Mediterranean heritage, I am covered with soft, blonde downy hair along my neck, arms, back and buttocks, along with the aforementioned armpit hair and bush.
 

Can I request a particular style of makeup?
If you prefer a particular style of make up - ie no make up, natural, full glamour or something else, please feel free to let me know! I am happy to accommodate makeup requests and have no issue seeing you without any makeup whatsoever or with a full face of glamour makeup. If you do not request a certain look, my make up is usually more natural during the day and more glamorous in the evening. 


Can I request a particular outfit?

While I do sometimes take outfit requests, this is very dependent on the situation. Suitors with specific fetishes such as stocking,, stilettos or thigh-high boots are able to be requested. You are also welcome to purchase pre-approved clothing items. However, in my experience there is no other person in the world who can dress me as well as I dress myself. What I wear is directly related to how comfortable I feel on our date together so, while I'm happy to build an outfit around a certain fetish/theme, I'm not comfortable with any client dressing me head-to-toe. 

What are your deposit, cancellation and rescheduling policies?

A very important question to ask! You can view my full deposit, cancellation and rescheduling policies on my Terms of Service page.

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Do you see women, queer, trans and people of diverse genders?

Absolutely! As a queer woman myself, I adore exploring intimacy in different ways with different people. Please note that I offer a generous 15% discount for cisgendered women. Trans and non-binary folks, please do get in touch for bespoke rates. ​​​

Do you see other sex workers?

Without a doubt! If you're a sex worker who needs a bit of special time where you are the center of attention, I would be honoured to provide that space for you. All verified sex workers are able to access my services with a 15% discount. 

Do you see people of diverse ethnicities and/or people with a disability?

Yes, I do. I do not discriminate or refuse to see clients based on ethnicity, ability or gender identity. I ask only that you are polite and hygienic, and that you follow my booking and screening procedures. As a big believer in the right of all human beings being able to access pleasure, I would be delighted to go on a journey with you to discover how you feel pleasure. I'm also happy to help you find out how you can pleasure yourself, if this is an area you struggle with. I have training in somatic sexology, including a brief dip into working with clients with disabilities. Note that I do not have specialised disability training as of yet. I am open to learning and will always, always err on the side of caution - if there's something I'm not sure about, I will tell you.  If there is any lifting required - ie wheelchair into bed -  please ensure your care person is there for that part of our rendezvous.

Can you provide an invoice for the NDIS?

Absolutely! Do get in touch to discuss your particular disability and what I can do to support you on your journey towards experiencing more pleasure. 

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Do you barter/offer cheaper rates? 

No, I do not. Any request of this nature will be immediately blocked and blacklisted. I do not tolerate disrespect. 

Do you practice safer sex?

Yes, I absolutely do. I attend regular STI screenings, I always use condoms and I ensure that transference of genital fluids is not passed between us during intimacy. If you have any particular concerns regarding sexual health, I am more than happy to discuss this with you. Rest assured that this is really important me. 

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Do you screen clients for STIs?

Yes, I do. Before every booking, and after payment, I will do an STI/Health screening. This includes a visual check of your genitals and, if we are doing any anal play such as pegging, a visual check of your anus. If you do not pass the STI/Health check, we will not be able to proceed with a full service booking. Full payment is required for bookings cancelled due to a failure of the STI/Health test. I suggest you have a little check yourself a week before and in the days leading up to our rendezvous. Depending on the situation, I may be ok with continuing the date without any intimate contact - ie; heading to the cinema or out to eat together. ​

I have a fetish/fantasy but a dominatrix session doesn't sound right for me. Do you offer kink/fetish/fantasy/role play bookings?

I do indeed. Please get in touch and I will be happy to discuss your kink/fetish/fantasy/roleplay and any extra rates with you. Generally speaking this starts at $100 extra.

Do you drink alcohol on dates?

While I do greatly enjoy a tipple or two, my connection with libations is more about savoring the moment than indulging in excess. Cocktails, gin and sparkling wine are my favourite choices. I'm also a huge fan of a warm mug of mulled spiced wine on a wintery night, snuggling up by a romantic fireplace...hint; take me to the country this winter ;)

Do you accept gifts?

One of my preferred expressions of affection is the act of receiving thoughtful gifts. I've put together a page here on my website, where you can be sure I will appreciate your gift. If you're keen to go off-list, I kindly request that in keeping with my values, any gifts align with my vegan lifestyle. Your consideration in this matter is sincerely appreciated.

Where are your favourite places to eat?

Please view my Date Ideas page. 

I've heard your vegan...what does this mean for our date?

Thank you for your consideration! I have been an ethical vegan for over 11 years. Not only to I eat strictly plant-based foods, all my cosmetic, fashion and household products are vegan. While I do not judge others for their lifestyle choices, I ask that when sharing a meal with me you please refrain from eating meat or fish. I find it very off putting and will not be able to relax and enjoy our time together. I reserve the right to cancel without refund of payment if a suitor insists on consuming animals in my presence. 

 

Do you enjoy shows?

I LOVE shows! I would be thrilled to join you for dinner & a show. I love musical theatre, burlesque, vaudeville, cabaret, jazz, blues, stand up, opera, theatrical plays, ballet, contemporary dance - basically any show! I also love movies, especially SciFi. Please view my Date Ideas page. 

How can I prepare myself so we're both comfortable on our date?

Great question! Please ensure you come to our date freshly showered, with clean nails and teeth. Before our date I will always ensure I am freshly showered and in good spirits. I expect the same from you.
A note of nerves - it's normal to feel nervous meeting someone for the first time! I welcome you to share where you're at. I love beginning with a chat, where I'll ask you questions and you're welcome to ask me questions. If there's anything you prefer to keep private, you can always say "I prefer to keep that private". I promise I won't be offended and I will do the same if you ask a question I'm not comfortable answering.
Note that if you turn up to our date with bad hygiene or a bad attitude, I may ask you leave. I reserve the right to cancel without the return of your payment. 

Why would you cancel a date?

Several factors may prompt me to reschedule or cancel a date. As a woman attuned to my cyclical nature, there is a week each month where I refrain from work. Despite my efforts to plan around this, occasional date adjustments may be necessary.

Additionally, should I discern any red flags during our communications, I prioritise my safety and peace of mind. Regardless of financial considerations, I am committed to ensuring a secure and comfortable environment, making no compromises in this regard.

I retain the right to cancel any date at any time should I feel uncomfortable or unsafe. In the event that the date is already underway, full payment will be forfeited. 

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