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Frequently Asked Questions

Do you offer unprotected intercourse?

I take my health seriously and will never offer unprotected intercourse. Additionally, I do not offer deep throating, cum in mouth or cum on face.

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Do you provide PSE or rough/hard sex services?

I am a passionate woman however, I do not enjoy pornographic style connections. 

 

Do your offer BBBJ?

Yes, I offer BBBJ starting at $300 extra for the first hour. For bookings longer than 1 hour, please get in touch for bespoke rates. BBBJ is always offered at my discretion. 

 

Do you offer anal sex?
Yes, I offer anal sex starting at $500 to the first hour, for bookings 3 hours or longer. Please get in touch for bespoke rates. Anal sex is always offered at my discretion and is dependent on how safe I feel with you. It's highly unlikely I will feel comfortable exploring this with first time clients. 

 

Do you offer sexting?

Yes, I offer steamy sexting! Please check my Digital Connection page for more information. 


Are your breasts natural or enhanced?
Natural! I've been blessed by mumma nature with a large, natural G cup bust

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Do you see couples? 
Absolutely! I love spending time with couples. Please add an additional $250 for the first hour. For dates longer than 1 hour, please get in touch for bespoke rates.

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Are you ok with filming and/or photography during the session?

No, I do not offer any filming or photography. 

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Can you shave/wax your body hair for me?
I do not accept grooming requests - my body hair will be how I want it to be which is usually shaved legs with grown out armpit hair and a full bush. Note that being a woman of mixed Mediterranean heritage, I am covered with soft, blonde downy hair along my neck, arms, back and buttocks, along with the aforementioned armpit hair and bush.
 

Can I request a particular style of makeup?
If you prefer a particular style of make up - ie no make up, natural, full glamour or something else, please feel free to let me know! I am happy to accommodate makeup requests and have no issue seeing you without any makeup whatsoever or with a full face of glamour makeup. If you do not request a certain look, my make up is usually more natural during the day and more glamorous in the evening. 


Can I request a particular outfit?

While I do sometimes take outfit requests, this is very dependent on the situation. Suitors with specific fetishes such as stocking,, stilettos or thigh-high boots are able to be requested. You are also welcome to purchase pre-approved clothing items. However, in my experience there is no other person in the world who can dress me as well as I dress myself. What I wear is directly related to how comfortable I feel on our date together so, while I'm happy to build an outfit around a certain fetish/theme, I'm not comfortable with any client dressing me head-to-toe. 

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What are your deposit, cancellation and rescheduling policies?

A very important question to ask! You can view my full deposit, cancellation and rescheduling policies on my Terms of Service page.

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Do you see women, queer, trans and people of diverse genders?

Absolutely! As a queer woman myself, I adore exploring intimacy in different ways with different people. Please note that I offer a generous 15% discount for cisgendered women. Trans and non-binary folks, please do get in touch for bespoke rates. ​​​

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Do you see other sex workers?

Without a doubt! If you're a sex worker who needs a bit of special time where you are the center of attention, I would be honoured to provide that space for you. All verified sex workers are able to access my services with a 15% discount. 

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Do you see people of diverse ethnicities and/or people with a disability?

Yes, I do. I do not discriminate or refuse to see clients based on ethnicity, ability or gender identity. I ask only that you are polite and hygienic, and that you follow my booking and screening procedures. As a big believer in the right of all human beings being able to access pleasure, I would be delighted to go on a journey with you to discover how you feel pleasure. I'm also happy to help you find out how you can pleasure yourself, if this is an area you struggle with. I have training in somatic sexology, including a brief dip into working with clients with disabilities. Note that I do not have specialised disability training as of yet. I am open to learning and will always, always err on the side of caution - if there's something I'm not sure about, I will tell you.  If there is any lifting required - ie wheelchair into bed -  please ensure your care person is there for that part of our rendezvous.

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Can you provide an invoice for the NDIS?

Absolutely! Do get in touch to discuss your particular disability and what I can do to support you on your journey towards experiencing more pleasure. 

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Do you barter/offer cheaper rates? 

No, I do not. Any request of this nature will be immediately blocked and blacklisted. I do not tolerate disrespect. 

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Do you practice safer sex?

Yes, I absolutely do. I attend regular STI screenings, I always use condoms and I ensure that transference of genital fluids is not passed between us during intimacy. If you have any particular concerns regarding sexual health, I am more than happy to discuss this with you. Rest assured that this is really important me. 

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Do you screen clients for STIs?

Yes, I do. Before every booking, and after payment, I will do an STI/Health screening. This includes a visual check of your genitals and, if we are doing any anal play such as pegging, a visual check of your anus. If you do not pass the STI/Health check, we will not be able to proceed with a full service booking. Full payment is required for bookings cancelled due to a failure of the STI/Health test. I suggest you have a little check yourself a week before and in the days leading up to our rendezvous. Depending on the situation, I may be ok with continuing the date without any intimate contact - ie; heading to the cinema or out to eat together. ​

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I have a fetish/fantasy but a dominatrix session doesn't sound right for me. Do you offer kink/fetish/fantasy/role play bookings?

I do indeed. Please get in touch and I will be happy to discuss your kink/fetish/fantasy/roleplay and any extra rates with you. Generally speaking this starts at $100 extra.

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Do you drink alcohol on dates?

While I do greatly enjoy a tipple or two, my connection with libations is more about savoring the moment than indulging in excess. Cocktails, gin and sparkling wine are my favourite choices. I'm also a huge fan of a warm mug of mulled spiced wine on a wintery night, snuggling up by a romantic fireplace...hint; take me to the country this winter ;)

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Do you accept gifts?

One of my preferred expressions of affection is the act of receiving thoughtful gifts. I've put together a page here on my website, where you can be sure I will appreciate your gift. If you're keen to go off-list, I kindly request that in keeping with my values, any gifts align with my vegan lifestyle. Your consideration in this matter is sincerely appreciated.

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Where are your favourite places to eat?

Please view my Date Ideas page. 

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I've heard your vegan...what does this mean for our date?

Thank you for your consideration! I have been an ethical vegan for over 11 years. Not only to I eat strictly plant-based foods, all my cosmetic, fashion and household products are vegan. While I do not judge others for their lifestyle choices, I ask that when sharing a meal with me you please refrain from eating meat or fish. I find it very off putting and will not be able to relax and enjoy our time together. I reserve the right to cancel without refund of payment if a suitor insists on consuming animals in my presence. 

 

Do you enjoy shows?

I LOVE shows! I would be thrilled to join you for dinner & a show. I love musical theatre, burlesque, vaudeville, cabaret, jazz, blues, stand up, opera, theatrical plays, ballet, contemporary dance - basically any show! I also love movies, especially SciFi. Please view my Date Ideas page. 

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How can I prepare myself so we're both comfortable on our date?

Great question! Please ensure you come to our date freshly showered, with clean nails and teeth. Before our date I will always ensure I am freshly showered and in good spirits. I expect the same from you.
A note of nerves - it's normal to feel nervous meeting someone for the first time! I welcome you to share where you're at. I love beginning with a chat, where I'll ask you questions and you're welcome to ask me questions. If there's anything you prefer to keep private, you can always say "I prefer to keep that private". I promise I won't be offended and I will do the same if you ask a question I'm not comfortable answering.
Note that if you turn up to our date with bad hygiene or a bad attitude, I may ask you leave. I reserve the right to cancel without the return of your payment. 

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Why would you cancel a date?

Several factors may prompt me to reschedule or cancel a date. As a woman attuned to my cyclical nature, there is a week each month where I refrain from work. Despite my efforts to plan around this, occasional date adjustments may be necessary.

Additionally, should I discern any red flags during our communications, I prioritise my safety and peace of mind. Regardless of financial considerations, I am committed to ensuring a secure and comfortable environment, making no compromises in this regard.

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I retain the right to cancel any date at any time should I feel uncomfortable or unsafe. In the event that the date is already underway, full payment will be forfeited. 

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